Hi friends! It's that magical time of year! My Purity Culture Dropout™ Queer Support Groups are OPEN NOW for an early January 2026 start! These groups are my most sought after (dare I say iconic?) offering, and they only happen once annually. Doors opened to the waitlist a few days ago. If you know you want to join us, now is your chance to get the best pick of dates and times. These groups sell out every year so please take this opportunity to secure your spot! Yesss! Sign me up now! Purity...
5 days ago • 2 min read
Helloooooo ! We are officially into December. Are you super busy this month? Do you want to take a little time to care for yourself? I am offering some discounted opportunities for people to work with me one-on-one this month. That means $40 off a one hour sex education session booked for selected dates in December 2025. Appointments are limited. Yes please - I want $40 off a Sex Ed session These are 1 hour sessions to focus on specific issues that you'd like to overcome or goals that you...
14 days ago • 1 min read
Psst: my individual education/ coaching sessions for the month of December are 30% off for everyone. When I was in fourth grade in 1988, we had an AIDS education class. I don't remember that much about it, but I do remember one girl wasn't allowed to be present for the lesson because her mother didn't want her to. I wish I could remember what fourth graders in Bellwood, PA learned about AIDS in 1988. I'm grateful we learned anything at all. I knew AIDS was a sad, scary disease when I was a...
18 days ago • 4 min read
Hello! That Cabbage Patch Kid was a boy named Maury Reuben and he had little yellow overalls with an elephant on them!!! It's Thanksgiving week in the US which means everything is going on sale everywhere, including my individual sessions. If you've been thinking about booking with me, here's your chance to get a session for almost 30% off my regular price. This sale won't happen again until sometime next summer, at my whims. Here's the link to book for selected dates in December! I talk to...
23 days ago • 1 min read
Preorder now from Bloomsbury Publishing Hello everyone! I'm trying to get in the groove of writing more regularly, as some of you have said that you really enjoy hearing from me. That is so sweet and thank you! Here's just a few things: Accountability on the doom scrolling: I've been falling off with limiting my screen time using the controls on the IPhone. I keep finding myself hitting the button that lets me be on social media for juuuuust fifteen more minutes...and hitting that button...
28 days ago • 2 min read
Preorder now from Bloomsbury Publishing Hello everyone! In the Purity Culture Dropout™ Private Community, our monthly theme is Coming Home to Our Bodies. I chose this theme because I know that part of growing up in purity culture means intentionally disconnected yourself from your bodily awareness. The cool thing is that learning to listen to your body is a skill that you can develop. If you've gotten good at ignoring what your body is telling you, your brain "turns down the volume" on the...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Hello and Happy Friday! Maybe you're still feeling some hope from the Election Day results (here in PA we retained three very important Supreme Court Justices!)? I'm gonna try to keep it on theme. Purity Culture Dropout Success Stories One of my favorite things is getting updates from people, even years later, about our work together. The thing about rethinking your relationship to sexuality after purity culture is that it takes time. Progress unfolds over years. How does that look in real...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Hello and I hope your Monday isn't hitting you too hard. We had our first Purity Culture Dropout™ Divorce Support Groups yesterday and just like in 2024, the inaugural meetings were so good. Participants get to know each other by sharing about their religious backgrounds and the short stories of their marriages. My favorite thing is watching the nodding and recognition from other participants' faces as they listen to each other's stories of growing up in high control religions, marrying...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
Hi hello on a weekend- this will be a super short one. 😬 It's just a reminder that if you want in on the Purity Culture Dropout™ Divorce Support Group, especially the one that meets on Sundays at 7:30pm ET- today is the last day to enroll (and ok fine- you can enroll through Sunday afternoon ET technically, but that's cutting it real close lol!). Anyone can join regardless of their current relationship to religion. This group is open to anyone regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation....
about 2 months ago • 1 min read